Here’s How To Get the Marriage You Want With the Date Your Mate Retreat.

October 6th and 7th, 2023

Learn the latest way to get true transformation for yourself, your spouse, and your family.

Do you want to stop worrying about ‘rocking the boat’ when you talk to your spouse about what’s really bothering you and start building a bright future for your family?

Here’s the secret.

Learn the best way to navigate each of these six key areas where it’s critical to build a solid foundations.

  • Communications — Learn how to properly express yourself and be understood by your spouse.

  • Conflict — Leave room for differences and turn those differences into areas of growth.

  • Physical Intimacy — Learn to respect and honor each other through every aspect of your relationship, including physical


  • Money — Navigate your money mindset and learn to stay on the same team and build your best financial future.

  • Parenting — Raise good, strong, independent, and responsible kids that are the best blend of both of your


  • Faith— Discover the most important truth to life and how to experience it with your family.

No More Craving a Break from Your Kids, Attacking Your Loved Ones, Fighting Addictions, or Being Afraid to Talk to Your Spouse and Rock the Boat.

Ready to get started?

Looking to sprinkle a little extra romance into your marriage? Why not join us for our "Date Your Mate" fall retreat! For just $77 per couple, not only will you get a dive deep into enriching your relationship, but you'll also be treated to a scrumptious dinner and fellowship on Friday and a delightful lunch on Saturday. Grab your partner and reserve your spot! Trust us, your relationship will thank you.

Don't miss out, spots fill up quickly. 🥂🍁 Let's make memories together!

Friday night dinner, Saturday lunch, workbook, and t-shirts (while supplies last) are included in your registration fee. The fee is per-couple, not per person.

This method works even if you think your marriage is ‘too far gone’ for meaningful healing and partnership.

Oh, the crisp fall air and the promise of heartwarming connections! If you're still wondering whether our two-day retreat is the thing for you and your significant other, let me share with you a few benefits of joining us:

  • Rekindle Your Bond: With life's hustle and bustle, it's easy for couples to drift apart. This retreat provides the perfect backdrop to rekindle that initial spark, reignite your passion, and remind each other of why you fell in love in the first place.

  • Dive into Wisdom: We'll be exploring "The Art of Marriage" together, unearthing its treasures and seeing how they apply to our lives. It's like a book club, but with deeper, more meaningful conversations tailored for couples.

  • Shared Experiences: Nothing brings people together like shared experiences. The exercises and study sessions aren’t just lessons; they're opportunities to make memories, laugh, and maybe even shed a tear or two together.

  • Fellowship and Friendship: Meet other Christian couples who are on the same journey as you. Share stories, experiences, challenges, and victories. By the end of our retreat, you'll have more than memories; you might just walk away with lifelong friends.

  • A Perfect Date Night: After all the insights and deep dives, what could be better than a date night with your spouse? Reconnect and reminisce, and start putting the deep lessons you've learned into practice in your marriage.

About Tim and Nancy

Like most couples, we were excited about sharing our lives together. You know, the usual of can’t stop thinking of each other, can’t wait to see one another and living the rest of our lives in love and bliss. Oh, don’t get us wrong, we’re not naive to think problems and challenges weren’t going to come...because it did in a BIG WAY!

But somehow, we knew we were meant for each other and that would silence the problems that would come. And sure did from financial problems, cancer scares, betrayal, infidelity, and all the dis(es) distant communications, distrust, disloyalty, displeasure, disbelief, disrespect, discontentment, and wanting to disappear when things got really tough.

But there was one little thing, or should we say one BIG thing, that kept us together. Our personal relationship and growth in God. Yes, even with the betrayal and unfaithfulness to my wife, Nancy. We had One Thing or should I say One Person going for us. Our personal and separate relationship with God which made all the difference in the world. We still wanted to honor both our marriage and family by overcoming all the bad while choosing to make the good BETTER. We loved our daughters and knew they deserved better. We decided to make an AMAZING LIFE now NOT later down the road. It wasn’t easy by all means but the work cost us everything and it was WORTH IT.

We reside in St. Charles, Missouri, and have been married since 1990 and have three wonderful and gifted daughters, Kayla the oldest and a set of twins, Jessica and Rachel.


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